CHALLENGES of WIDOWS 

A DREAM 

Do you ever want a hug? 

And a kiss?              

And a snuggle-up snug? 

Just for a moment 

You remember the good times 

You got that funny tingle 

And a twinkle in your eye 

Warm and fuzzy all over 

You remember………… 

Oh God, let me feel his embrace 

And his whispers 

His lips across my face 

His hands with their soft touch 

These feelings are way too much 

All of a sudden, you’re awake 

Having a hot flash 

Dreaming of sex—for Heaven’s sake!! 

My body has needs 

My mind is weary 

Maybe a long walk 

Or just be able to have a talk 

Really don’t want another 

But if true love could find me 

I would not be so lonely 

I would be on my way 

To go places and be able to say 

That I have found a friend 

That will be true to the end 

They will listen to my thoughts and my dreams 

Without judging my visions and what I have seen 

True love is what I need 

To let me be me and love me for me 

Diane Harpole 

Aug. 28, 2024 

Christy and Tyler

(short story)

Christy and Tyler had been in a relationship for three years.  Tyler had a controlling behavior toward Christy, dictating what she said and could do. Christy eventually got the strength to leave  Tyler but she began to get up every morning and find herself crying. Christy was left with deep emotional scars and always asked herself why she stayed in the relationship with Tyler after what he had done to her.  

One weekend Tyler and Christy were in their home and Tyler went into the bathroom to take a nice hot bath in their whirlpool tub.  Tyler called Christy into the bathroom and asked her to join him and offered to give her a massage.  Christy got undressed and climbed into the tub to relax with Tyler.  They talked for a while as Tyler was massaging her shoulders as she laid back against his chest.  Tyler wrapped his legs around her tightening them. He began to massage her shoulders with increased pressure.  He slowly began to push her downwards into the water.

Christy was in shock and asked, “What are you doing?” He did not respond at first and remained silent. After a few seconds had passed, he replied, ” You need to watch what you say to people.” Christy began to panic as he pushed her under the water.  She started to struggle as he held her down.  When he finally released her, she came up out of the tub choking and gasping for air. She began to catch her breath and tears were streaming down her face. Tyler responded, “You need to be careful of what you say because you never know what might happen to you.” Tyler warned her of the future consequences of what might happen to her if she said anything.

 As Christy left the bathroom to get dressed, Tyler came into the room and sat on the bed where Christy was sitting. He wrapped his arms around her and told her he loved her and would never do that again.  

Christy eventually left Tyler a few years later and the trauma has haunted Christy years later.  She has not been able to take baths for fear of a man doing this again to her. 

Challenges of Widows

Honeypot

Daughter wanted me to get out and go 

Too much staying at home and feeling low 

Needed to have fun and talk to friends 

Tired of arguing so I agreed  

We met her friends for a drink and to eat 

When I talk, I look eye to eye 

A trait most men appreciate 

One of the young men stared 

Who was a good-looking guy 

I felt uneasy as he came on to me 

I tried to be nice and let him lead 

But his conversation kept coming back to me 

Compliments all over the place 

Trying to accept them, but 

I really wanted to put him in his place 

Thinking to myself and trying to make excuses 

He wants to be nice and tell his funny jokes 

Just listen, be nice, and have another doctored Coke 

By now this was getting old 

My patience was getting thin 

I am too old for this young man! 

I could not figure him out 

With all these young girls running about 

Now it was really time to go 

He was talking like I was a “ho”! 

He made out like I was “hot” 

Probably thought I was some “Honey Pot”! 

Not wanting to make a fuss 

I said my goodbyes and said it was fun 

No more getting together with younger men 

 Just getting home felt like a major win! 

Diane Harpole 

1/18/2024