The Sag

One day you wake up and you go look in the mirror.  You notice oh my gosh!  Your boobs have sagged down.  You pick each one up and try to put it back in place and they drop, and you think what am I going to do?  It makes you feel unattractive, and think people will see your boobs sagging. But you know you are getting older and there is not much you can do about it. 

Most men like the perky boobs and you think, well they might not look at me with my boobs sagging downwards. There are a lot of men out there who are breast men. So you think what do I do?  

There are several things you can do to help.  Exercise, eat healthy, support bras, and there are surgical procedures to help with these situations.  

I have spoken to several men and most have stated “A woman with boobs to her waist is very unattractive.”  Some men realize we are all getting older and it doesn’t bother them with women who have sagging boobs.  They understand gravity takes a hold of our body parts. One thing that I have found, men have stated when a woman is lying on the bed and one boob goes to one side and the other goes to the other side… that this is unappealing to them.  This seems to be a common thing a lot of men agree on. Most men don’t want to be dating someone, in their terms, “bat wings” or boobs that look like part of their underarms. 

You think using a support bra will help.  But when you are single and wanting to date someone,  little things run through your mind.  When you get ready for your special night and think, when I take my bra off my boobs are going down.  This can be embarrassing thinking your partner might not find you desirable.  If this is uncomfortable for you just go slow and take it one step at a time and see how your partner reacts toward you.  One thing definitely, talk about it before you make that homerun.  Make sure you take a good inventory of your body and their body before you go on this venture. 

Another thing is that women get boob jobs at early ages.  They want to appeal to their partners.  The older they get their boobs begin to sag.  Sometimes with the extra weight one boob could be lower than the other, they could go in outward directions, nipples can be pointing up while boob is sagging down, or nipples could be pointing downward, etc. These surgeries can be expensive.  The women can be very attractive women, but if they have had a boob job to enlarge and now they are older.  This will definitely cause some men to look away. 

Ladies are not the only ones who have sagging issues.  As men get older their balls drop.  They sometimes have extra fluid in their balls.  Sometimes when they go to the bathroom their balls can actually hit the water.  Splash!  Men have also been known to accidentally sit on their balls because they are older and sagging more.  

But unlike ladies most men have this attitude they don’t give a crap.  Things don’t bother them as they do women.  But when that special night rolls around, especially for someone single and being the first night they have sex, you think how do I react when he takes off his pants and his balls are hanging low.  Do I just make a joke out of it?  

Men with saggy balls are not very attractive.  Most women do not want to date a man with them to their knees. 

Good thing there are exercises that will help with this and if those don’t work there is surgery for saggy balls. 

This article is not to offend anyone, but it has different viewpoints from men and women over 50.  

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Diana Renee

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