Thoughts about Massages

What do you think when you think of massage?  Most people enjoy a nice massage.  I enjoy getting massages.  

You have the massage that a professional will do.  That is to relieve stress and tension in your body.  These people have been to school and had professional training.  They know how to help people with these ailments. Some of those massages can go from 30 minutes or longer.  Usually they will start from the head and go down your body massaging your muscles.  With these professionals there is no sexual contact going on.  Some people hear stories when they first go about massage therapy and massage parlors and are afraid to go.  Some people I hear don’t want someone touching them but they may have pains that can actually be worked out.  I have been to a professional and I can say from my experience it does help. 

The home massage by your partner, friend, etc.  Sometimes you just want your back rubbed.  This is the massage without sex. You and your partner just give each other a back rub or body rub.  This massage you usually want to use a lotion that both enjoy.  I have noticed most men do not want to smell like a flower.  One lotion that I have found that some men like is the Aromatherapy Stress Relief by Bath & Body Works.  It is a body cream. The one I have used has Eucalyptus and Tea in it. 

The Romantic massage.  This usually leads to a romantic night.  Usually it is the foreplay to a nice night.  This is a lot of rubbing in areas you don’t normally rub.  Places where professional therapists don’t go.  This usually turns into a romantic night.  It is not a night where you do one thing and you’re done.  This usually is a night of passion and love. These nights most people enjoy the touch of their partners in those areas. 

Massage stories

In my past, I have experienced this from a friend of mine.  He enjoyed touching women.  He would invite women to his home and give them massages.  He would have candles and relaxing music.  He used oils. I asked him why he loved giving massages.  He stated to me that he enjoyed touching a woman.  He thought their skin was soft and wanted to massage them. There was no sex involved, he just enjoyed touching women.

Then you have the man who will go on the internet looking for the erotic massage.  This is usually a fantasy but some men do find places that will do this. These places are usually against the law in the United States. These men want to feel a woman rub them down and have a happy ending. I have also found that some do not want their spouse or girlfriend giving them a happy ending but rather a stranger doing this. This kind of massage can lead to problems in a marriage or a relationship.  Even when a man is searching for an erotic massage.  There are men who work traveling and a lot of times they will get lonely out on the roads and will start to get fantasies in their head about getting a massage.  Wanting to feel someone touch them. 

I have found that usually when a man starts searching for those kinds of massages, he will search for a while.  Then they start to message, call places, and look for reviews on the internet.  This is usually done over a period of time.  Normally when their spouse or partner has a fight with them they usually dabble a little more into it.  Eventually they will go and find someone to do this for them.  These are not the kind of massages that will keep a relationship together.  

All and all massages are great, but not the kind to destroy relationships. If you want a “Happy Ending” massage, do it with your partner.  It will save you grief, stress, and money due to divorce and will also spice up your current relationship.

These are my opinions of massages.